Reiki Helps You Heal Your Relationships

People looking for Reiki have one thing in common: they're looking for a solution to a problem they're having in life. It all comes down to their relationships.

This may be a reference to their interactions with their relatives. Most of the time, this is in reference to their romantic or social relationships. In any case, Reiki can be extremely beneficial.

There is one caveat, however: there are certain relationships that you do not need to heal. These are the individuals who will continue to drain your vitality and poison your energetic and spiritual bodies.

If you have all of these people in your life, you must immediately distance yourself from them. Touching others repeatedly may be dangerous to you and others. Despite the hopes of redemption and making amends, I know far too many people who remain in unhealthy relationships.

Reiki only happens because the other person agrees to the treatment, and while you don't have to believe in it to get it, it can only be accepted by someone who is able to accept it.

Toxic people will never think about it and will continue to be toxic. This isn't to say that someone who has treated you poorly or wrongly should be thrown out; maybe they had good intentions and there were just misunderstandings.

If against your best intentions, you see a pattern of behavior in someone or a group of individuals, it might be time to discharge them.

This will help your energy to fully recover from the harm and pain you've suffered, allowing you to focus on the relationships that matter to you and give value to your life.

This is something you should start doing with Reiki and start healing your relationships. Just as in Reiki healing, we want to get rid of the negative before we can develop the positive. Cut contact with those that are poisoning your life and focus on the relationships that are most important to you.

I'll show you three different ways to use Reiki to repair a friendship and start spending more time with others.

Respect and admiration

After you've cut ties with the people that aren't good for you, think about the relationships that are important to you. These bonds may be fantastic, strained, or non-existent.

Write these down on a sheet of paper or in a diary if it helps you. It's a good idea to write down all of these relations. Create a list of WHY they are significant, first and foremost.

Is there a family resemblance between you and your parents or siblings?  What about the people you remember from your childhood? Who are the individuals with which you interact? Is there someone in your significant other's family or circle of friends? Why are all of these people so important in your life to you? Recognizing the WHY behind these relationships will help you figure out how to repair them.

If your significant other's mother has a tense relationship with you and you want to mend fences, for example, it's important to consider why you want to mend fences.

Perhaps it's because you love family and don't want to see the ties that bind you to them frayed. Maybe you'd like to have a deeper connection with her.

Whatever the reason, make a note of it! Each situation will be different because this is such a personal matter for you. After you've finished writing out these relationships and determining why they're important, it's time to layout our strategy.

Following that, we'll look at what these objectives are and how Reiki will assist us in achieving them.

The Intentions

It's time to think about your 'why' even more now that you've recognized it. Why is it so necessary for you to mend those bonds? What is it that drives you to want to help them? It's important to remember that this is distinct from why you esteem partnerships. Think of the choices carefully.

Is it to bring happiness to someone who isn't present? Is it purely for your own benefit? You must be absolutely honest with yourself about whatever it is.

The biggest lie you can say is about yourself, so make sure you're still saying the truth. Universal Energy becomes weakened when one's willpower is depleted.

If you sacrifice your intent, you will never be able to recover. Examine your motivations thoroughly, and if you've identified them, adhere to them no matter what.

Interpret the following statement after you've decided what you want to do and fill in the blanks of your resolve. "Because __________, I'd like to repair this relationship."

This will force you to admit and be truthful about the motives you want to repair your relationship. You might use a version of the above statement, but this is, in my view, one of the most effective questions. Now that we've defined your intentions, let's move on to the next level.

The Perfect Divide

The division between two dimensions is referred to as a "rift." However, in this instance, it applies to the separation between you and the other person(s).

What is the most vexing issue between you and the other person(s)? Was it confusion or a growing gap that caused it? Is it true that they or you were the ones to blame for the accident? Finding out where you and your partner diverge is crucial because it tells a lot about your energetic understanding of one another.

That's why you'll hear the following sentences in a lot of failed relationships:

"I can't seem to be comfortable anymore."

"It's just because I'm so far away from you." 

"I don't know if I'll be able to pull that off."

These phrases are based on a simple energy imbalance between the two parties. You must first determine where the rift exists between you and the other person. This distinction will help you pinpoint precisely where you need to heal.

Now, I know what you're thinking: this is all pretty straightforward, so where does the healing come in? We're about to get started on that right now.

Technique for Relationship Healing

When combined with the three steps mentioned above, this technique will result in a significant change in a relationship.

To begin, print out a picture of the person with whom you are attempting to repair your relationship (or take one out if you already have one). Then, through soothing breathing in and out, invoke Universal Energy through your hands.

With each exhale, imagine the vitality of the air coursing into the veins and through your fingertips. They may appear to be bathed in yellow, green, blue, or red light.

When you invoke this spirit, be aware of the connection and its importance to you. If you'd like to be more formal, say it out loud. Repeat this step 3-6 times to determine the energy.

After that, tell your intentions aloud 3-6 times to charge the energy. If you'd like to be more formal, say it out loud. Slowly inhale and exhale thoroughly as you intend to channel this energy across the realms to help the relationship heal.

Be grateful to the other individual and to Universal Energy as you complete this process.

It's important to keep in mind that this is only one of several relationship-healing techniques. It's also crucial to rid yourself of negative energies if you want to cure them. This can take the form of mental and emotional impediments.